We walked in the door, Eddie was thrilled. We told him at home that he was going to Dog Pawz. In the car, the excitement level was in the red…’Hell yes, we’re going to Dog Pawz today!’

He knew where he was going.

Eddie was sniffing everything, jumping up to look over the counter to see if he recognized any of the people working today. No one was behind the counter but there were so many smells and sounds that it didn’t really matter.

“And who is this guy?”
“This is Eddie”
“And whats the last name?”

That’s odd, they’ve never asked for a last name before.

“uhh, Starkweather”
“Ohh, did you make a reservation?”

Why the hell would I make a reservation, you guys have told me in the past, I didn’t need a reservation for day care.

“uhh, no”
“We’re actually full. Today we are only accepting reservations”
“What?!”

Confusion.
Rage.
Disappointment.

We had to leave. He is still so excited, still sniffing everything in sight, whining with excitement…’this is the best place ever, thanks for bringing me today dad!’ is all I could hear coming from him. And then we walked out the door, back to the car.

More Confusion, this time from Eddie.

Normally, an open car door is an invitation for fun. This time he didn’t budge, he just looked up at me not quite understanding why we’re outside while all the fun in right in through that door a few feet away. We were just in there. What is happening?

“Come on Ed, jump up”
“Eddie, come on”

The excitement was gone.

As I drove the half hour back home, all I could think about was how disappointing this must be for Ed. Think of it like asking you’re child if they want to go get an ice cream cone.

“Really!?!”
“Yea, come on let’s go it’ll be fun”
“Yeaaaaaa! Thanks Dad, your the best!”

“What are you going to get?”
“I don’t know, I’m so excited I can’t decide…maybe chocolate, no cookies and cream, ooohhh ooohhh, chocolate and peanut butter!”
“Can I get toppings too?
“Of course, you can get anything you’d like. You’ve earned it”
“Oh boy oh boy oh boy!”

“Ok, pick out what you want”
“I want that one!”
“Good choice, that looks delicious”

“Can we get one of those and some extra sprinkles, thanks”

The store owner scoops out two huge scoops of ice cream and drowns them in sprinkles. Then right as your kids eyes are about to bug out of his head and steam is literally pouring from his ears…

“Psyche. Get back in the car squirt, that back yard isn’t going to cut itself you know.”

That’s pretty much how I felt. Thanks to Dog Pawz for not making me make a reservation every time I want to bring my first born in for doggy day care, EXCEPT for that one day when I really did want to bring him in and all of a sudden its reservation only…thanks, that was great.

 
books

Reading a book a week in 2012
I’m a little late in jumping in on this but I’m going to give it a shot.

I’ve resolved to read a book a week in 2012. I was inspired by Julien Smith’s post about how he did it last year. Before I read his post, I had already made a few goals/resolutions about reading this year. Nearly every year I say I want to read more (I already enjoy reading and I probably read more than many people) and I wanted to read something that I wouldn’t normally choose. These are both great, but by reading a book a week, I will undoubtedly achieve both of the goals that I set for myself.

So this year my goal is 52 books. By Julien’s math, that’s about 40 pages a day (or 15% if you’re doing Kindle math). That shouldn’t be hard, right? Riiight. So far, I’m on track, four weeks into January and five books down. I’ve finished Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell, The Flinch (by the same guy who inspired this challenge), The Snowman by Jo Nesbo, What Technology Wants by Kevin Kelly and Double Dead by Chuck Wendig (5 book in 4 weeks!). Below are a list of the books that I’ve marked on my list to read this year. In no particular order.

The Day of the Jackal – Frederick Forsythe

The Purple Cow – Seth Godin

What the Dog Saw – Malcolm Gladwell

Seeing Gray In a World of Black and White – Adam Hamilton

American Gods – Neal Gaiman

1Q84 – Haruki Murakami

Savage Season – Joe Lansdale

Snow Crash – Neal Stephenson

Ready Player One – Ernest Cline

In the Plex – Steven Levy

Anything You want – Derek Sivers

The Art of Non-Conformity – Chris Guillebeau

When Christians Get It Wrong – Adam Hamilton

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking – Susan Cain

For a little added emphasis, I wanted to throw in this little gem from Chuck Wendig from his post, 25 Things Writers Should Start Doing

Said it before, will say it again: we all get 24 hours in our day. Nobody has extra time. You must claim time for yourself and your writing. Time is a beast stampeding ever forward and we’re all on its back. Don’t get taken for a ride. Grab the reins. Whip that nag to go where you want her to go. Take control. Hell, pull out a big ol’ electric knife and carve off a quivering lardon of fatty Time Bacon all for yourself.

 

Any other suggestions for books to read this year? Let me know in the comments section.

 
tv

My resistance seems to be the comfort of the tv. Not even watching tv but the white noise of its soft glow. That sentence was painful to write, but its true. I don’t even like TV or whats on, but for some reason it has the ability to make you relax and after a day at the office, its nice to relax.

What I’d rather be doing? Reading more, writing more, working out more. My resistance is the comfort of sitting on the couch, zoning out.

One of my New Years Resolutions has been to eat dinner at the dinner table WITH the TV off. My wife and I both come home from work and the white noise that is the TV seems like a natural next step. You get home and turn on the TV. Most of the time there is nothing on that we watch. At most there is one show that we want to watch each day, but really there is probably only 3-4 things each week that we WANT to watch but the resistance gets in the way.

My resistance keeps me from reading more than I do (which may be a lot for some people, but for me, I can do better) it keeps me from writing more than I’d like to. Keeping this thing updated each week is hard work. The resistance also keeps me indoors and on the couch in the winter. Its dark when I get home, the energy is low and the glow from the tube is soft, bright and comforting.

Why is the TV my resistance? because even if I’m not watching whats on, it gets me distracted. If I’m trying to read, I spend 15 minutes on one page and I reread the same paragraph over and over.

If the tv is on, I lose all motivation to write. It is literally a mind suck. my writing comes out in spurts. And incomplete sentences. And the voice from which I wish to write is lost and I take on something of which is not mine and alas I feel lost….see what I mean!?

So in 2012, I know what shows I want to Watch. I know when they’re on. I’m going to fight the resistance and keep the tube off.

For a little added emphasis, I wanted to throw in this little gem from Chuck Wendig from his post, 25 Things Writers Should Start Doing

Said it before, will say it again: we all get 24 hours in our day. Nobody has extra time. You must claim time for yourself and your writing. Time is a beast stampeding ever forward and we’re all on its back. Don’t get taken for a ride. Grab the reins. Whip that nag to go where you want her to go. Take control. Hell, pull out a big ol’ electric knife and carve off a quivering lardon of fatty Time Bacon all for yourself.

 

I’m sitting here watching the Tour de France as I’ve done for the last couple years. This is actually one of my favorite time of year. The Tour is extremely exciting to watch and its even more fun to get on your bike and tear up the streets of your local town imagining you’re whipping through France.

This year however something popped into my head. I’m an avid cyclist and yet I still don’t quite know who to root for! There is Mark Cavendish and Alberto Contrador but neither really seems to stick out as being that guy to pull for.

In years past there was always Lance. Regardless of how well he was riding, you could always pull for him to climb the next hill better than the next guy. Or just to root for someone when you see him riding. This year though, Mr. Yellow Jacket isn’t riding and I’m struggling to find his replacement. With all that being said, international fans and die hard cylcists (a step or two above my fandom level) probably have some people to root for. But in general there isn’t another Lance.

So then I started thinking, if the Cycling big wigs were smart, or even if Versus Network was smart, they should take out a large national ad campaign focusing on a single rider. Someone to be the new spokesman for cycling that people could root for. Someone for cyclists and tv watchers alike could say, “oh, I saw him on a billboard or on tv. Let’s see how he’s doing.” more ad money for versus, more product placement for bike companies, more cyclists on the streets and surrounding the sport. This of course is the same argument Soccer fans have been making for years and I understand the arguments. But as a fan, it’d be fun to see something happen.

As I’m writing this, Mark Cavendish just make the most rediculous comeback to win Stage 5 in the Tour. I feel exhausted just watching him do it. These guys are amazing.

 

3 5k’s and a bike ride down and I’m on my way to a triathlon!  That’s right, I’ve adjusted my goals and I am going to compete in a triathlon this summer.  A sprint triathlon, but a triathlon none the less.

What’s spawned this? I love riding my bike and I’ve come to enjoy running in the local 5k races (I typically do not enjoy running, but the competitions give the running a little edge that’s kinda fun).  Also, growing up I always thought the triathletes were awesome.  I was that weird kid who would rather watch Dan and Dave in the pentathlon than watch the 100 yard dash finals in the Olympics.

So where does that leave me?  Participating in at least one triathlon this summer.  The sprint triathlons are manageable (500 meter swim, 10 mile bike ride, 3 mile run) as far as triathlons go.  I’m excited and nervous as I’m sure I’ll be dead tired when I cross the finish line.  So in preparation I still need to complete my ’2nd Quarter Resolution’ and compete in one or two more bike rides before the end of the year (The triathlon would be the second and/or third!).  In the meantime, I’ve also done three 5k’s and I have at least two more scheduled (Dragon Dash and the Helen Gold 5k).  I also just completed the Johnson County Bike Club (JCBC) Spring Classic!  It was a 46 mile ride and it took me a short 3 1/2 hours.  It was a good time and it marks the first of my three bike rides.

I’ll keep you posted on my results and after my triathlon.  Below are my times so far this year…and links to some great charities.

Love2Run (4 mile): 45.15

Rock the Parkway (5k): 29.40

Trolley Run (4 mile): 36.04

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